And here's my rant against women and how stupid they can sometimes be. Not nearly as often as men, but here's one example of utter stupidity and cruelty of a woman.
Sister's boyfriend's brother has just become a father half an hour ago. It's a girl! Well, no surprises there, we've all known it was a girl for months. He's not only sister's bf's brother, he's also my friend and my ex. It didn't last, and we just returned to "friends mode", lol. Anyway, not long after we broke up, he met this girl. They were on and off, on and off... didn't seem like love at all but you know, people's relationships are a strange thing - no one can really tell what goes on between two people, no one knows but the two of them. So after not even a year of on-offing, she got pregnant. Now, she's 28-29, he's 25. We're talking adults here, right? There they were, in a shaky relationships, making babies. WTF??! Can you say birth control??!!! But they've decided to keep it and wedding plans were made. I know, I know... Having a baby shouldn't be the sole reason for getting married, but here where I live, it still too often is. I'm all for having children if you want, but why get married to someone you clearly don't love or even get along with (on-off, remember?) just because you got knocked up? But they said they're gonna get married and they rented a place to live here, in this village. Then she changed her mind about getting married. They were only going to live together, but not get married. OK, that sounded even reasonable, they obviously didn't know each other that well so why not give it a try first to see if it works, right? So they bought some furniture, TV, car... I don't know exactly, but I think that she bought a car "for them" and he bought the furniture. And then, as they were about to move in, literally, as he drove her in front of the house, she got out of the car and started crying saying she didn't wanna live there. WTF??! (again) Seriously, 28 (or29) years old woman making such mess! If she didn't want to do it, why go through the whole process? Spending all of that money? Time? Building his hopes up ? Because he obviously cared more for her than she did for him. Well, shit happens, so he drove her back home and they broke up. Baby still on the way, of course. A baby that is now born.
I realise that my post has little sense, if any. But I wonder now if he'd be a father to that child. I know he wants to be, but what happens when they both meet other people, when their lives go separate ways? With a woman as immature as this one apparently is, I expect virtual blackmail with that child to get whatever she wants. And he will give it. Because from how he behaves, it seems to us he's still hoping to get back together. And he's in for some serious heart-break.
Sister's boyfriend's brother has just become a father half an hour ago. It's a girl! Well, no surprises there, we've all known it was a girl for months. He's not only sister's bf's brother, he's also my friend and my ex. It didn't last, and we just returned to "friends mode", lol. Anyway, not long after we broke up, he met this girl. They were on and off, on and off... didn't seem like love at all but you know, people's relationships are a strange thing - no one can really tell what goes on between two people, no one knows but the two of them. So after not even a year of on-offing, she got pregnant. Now, she's 28-29, he's 25. We're talking adults here, right? There they were, in a shaky relationships, making babies. WTF??! Can you say birth control??!!! But they've decided to keep it and wedding plans were made. I know, I know... Having a baby shouldn't be the sole reason for getting married, but here where I live, it still too often is. I'm all for having children if you want, but why get married to someone you clearly don't love or even get along with (on-off, remember?) just because you got knocked up? But they said they're gonna get married and they rented a place to live here, in this village. Then she changed her mind about getting married. They were only going to live together, but not get married. OK, that sounded even reasonable, they obviously didn't know each other that well so why not give it a try first to see if it works, right? So they bought some furniture, TV, car... I don't know exactly, but I think that she bought a car "for them" and he bought the furniture. And then, as they were about to move in, literally, as he drove her in front of the house, she got out of the car and started crying saying she didn't wanna live there. WTF??! (again) Seriously, 28 (or29) years old woman making such mess! If she didn't want to do it, why go through the whole process? Spending all of that money? Time? Building his hopes up ? Because he obviously cared more for her than she did for him. Well, shit happens, so he drove her back home and they broke up. Baby still on the way, of course. A baby that is now born.
I realise that my post has little sense, if any. But I wonder now if he'd be a father to that child. I know he wants to be, but what happens when they both meet other people, when their lives go separate ways? With a woman as immature as this one apparently is, I expect virtual blackmail with that child to get whatever she wants. And he will give it. Because from how he behaves, it seems to us he's still hoping to get back together. And he's in for some serious heart-break.
1 spoke back:
The responsibility of having a baby can be really frightening. So frightening you'd contemplate living with anyone as long as they share the burden... But yeah, birth control!
Bel
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